Need it? Want it!
Reading Eric Kruger's book 'Acta non Verba' I realise how often I come from the wrong angle and then wonder why things don't work out. Not only does neediness not attract what and who you want in your life but it also provides a way in for those opposing you or wanting to take advantage of you.
When you make this distinction it becomes much easier to walk away from discussions and situations that don't serve your vision.
Get clear on what you want! Then work for it, manifest it, create it. BUT DO NOT NEED IT!